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Here I talk about my issues and my findings, without political correctness. I am not concerned with your issues, or your baggage, or what you may take from this. The title is "My Journey".

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Monday, April 6, 2009

Scared to Death

I'm about to walk out the door to go see the plastic surgeon for a consultation in regards to my skin cancer.

Stupid me convinced everyone that I was fine.

I didn't think I would be this scared. I didn't think I'd so not want to be alone as I face this today. But I am, and I'll deal with it like I always do.

One day I will learn to reach out and ask for help. One day I will learn to not say "oh no, it'll be fine", when the voice inside my head is shrieking "YES I WANT YOU TO COME WITH ME, WHY ARE YOU LISTENING TO ME!?!". One day I will. One day. Maybe.


Thanks for listening,



charmed i'm sure said...

good luck Dee - thoughts and prayers are with you! xoxo

Chantel said...

Good luck!!

sesame said...

You have been on my mind since the moment I woke today.

In fact, my IM bubble to you says:

[10:14] srichardson: how are you feeling today?
[10:14] srichardson: you are on my mind
[10:14] srichardson: I wish I was with you. Love you more than you will ever know.

My hand is always here, extended, you only need to grasp it and I will walk along side you. Anytime, anywhere, through anything.


Saje said...

I do the same thing and am also trying to teach myself otherwise... best of luck today. I know these types of appointments are scary, but I have no doubt your support system will be waiting for you when you are done. Blessed be.

Anonymous said...

good luck dee, i hope everything turns out okay.

Krista "Phoenix" said...

Oh Dee... {HUGS} I wish I had something more profound to say other than I'll be thinking of you and praying for you today...

Dancing Sweet Pea said...

Best of luck -- thinking of you!